“So be patient with gracious patience.” [Surat al-Ma`arij: 5]
This means patience without any complaints.
“…so forgive with gracious forgiveness.” [Surat al-Hijr: 85]
This means forgiveness without any admonishment.
“…and avoid them with gracious avoidance.” [Surat al-Muzzammil: 10]
This means avoidance without any type of harm.
Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah)